| catch up observation 9/30 |
[Nov. 15th, 2006|04:18 am] |
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I hear to many men say that sex is not a big deal at my age when talking to a girl. Ya right, next they are going to say water dehydrates you. I am talking about high school and college students only. Granted sex is not an issue at all for some people, and if they date some one who sex is also not an issue then the relationship works. But sex is one f the biggest factors in a relationship at our age. If a guy has had sex with one girlfriend it is assumed that sex will come in all other relationships. All too often I have noticed boys trying to deny this, telling girls that they don’t need sex. Well I say if you spend enough time have sex with your right hand your right, its no big deal in the relationship, but that doesn’t happen. I speak from experience I am sorry to say, I once went out with a girl who refused to do anything but kiss and that relationship did not last but a handful of months when I realized she was serious about no sex. I can now say my views on sex have changed quiet drastically due to a series of events, but that does not discount the fact that sex is still in relationships for me. Boys need to simply admit that sex is a factor and a large one at that, and stop denying it. |
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Sex is a factor for girls too, though we're taught to pretend we're demure ;) | |
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